What is a dominant-submissive (D/s) relationship?

A dominant-submissive relationship is a consensual power exchange where one partner (the dominant) assumes leadership and control while the other (the submissive) voluntarily surrenders authority. Unlike vanilla relationships based on equality, D/s dynamics embrace structured inequality that serves both partners' psychological needs. The dominant makes decisions, sets rules, and guides the dynamic. The submissive follows leadership, obeys protocols, and offers their will. This isn't about superiority or inferiority but complementary roles where each finds fulfillment. D/s relationships can range from bedroom-only dynamics to 24/7 lifestyles, from light authority exchange to total power exchange. The key elements are explicit consent, negotiated boundaries, and power flowing from submissive to dominant rather than being taken.

How does a D/s relationship differ from a normal relationship?

D/s relationships differ fundamentally in power structure and decision-making. In vanilla relationships, partners operate as equals with shared authority over their lives. In D/s dynamics, authority flows through hierarchy - the dominant holds decision-making power granted by the submissive's consent. Daily life reflects this structure: the dominant might choose the submissive's clothing, control their schedule, or enforce rules. The submissive seeks permission rather than negotiation. However, this inequality is consensual and negotiated, unlike unhealthy vanilla relationships where one partner dominates through manipulation. D/s relationships also differ in intensity and intentionality - the power dynamic remains conscious and cultivated rather than accidental. Many couples practice D/s within otherwise vanilla relationships, compartmentalizing the power exchange to specific contexts while maintaining equality elsewhere.

What makes someone want to be dominant or submissive?

The desire for dominance or submission stems from deep psychological architecture rather than trauma or pathology. Dominants often possess natural leadership qualities, find satisfaction in responsibility, and experience fulfillment through guiding others. They may have discovered early that taking charge leads to positive outcomes and reduces their own anxiety. Submissives frequently score high in sensitivity and openness, finding freedom in structure and peace in surrender. They may have learned that constant decision-making causes stress while following trusted leadership brings relief. These orientations appear partly innate, influenced by temperament, attachment styles, and early experiences with authority. Research shows BDSM practitioners score higher on psychological well-being than the general population, suggesting these desires reflect natural variations in human psychology rather than dysfunction. Many people discover their orientation through experimentation, recognizing which role feels authentically aligned with their nature.

Are dominant-submissive relationships healthy?

When practiced with awareness, consent, and communication, D/s relationships can be exceptionally healthy. Research shows BDSM practitioners often display better communication skills, higher relationship satisfaction, and stronger psychological well-being than vanilla couples (Wismeijer & van Assen, 2013; Lecuona et al., 2024; Carty & Davidson, 2024; Brown et al., 2020). The explicit negotiation required builds emotional intelligence. The trust involved deepens intimacy capacity. The structure provides clarity that reduces relationship anxiety. However, like any relationship style, health depends on implementation. Healthy D/s relationships involve ongoing enthusiastic consent, honored boundaries, mutual growth, and care for both partners' wellbeing. Unhealthy ones show coercion, boundary violations, and one-sided benefit. The power exchange itself isn't unhealthy - the question is whether consent remains central, communication stays open, and both parties flourish. Professional guidance from BDSM-aware therapists can help navigate challenges.

How do you start a dominant-submissive relationship?

Starting a D/s relationship requires open communication, gradual exploration, and explicit consent. Begin by discussing desires, fears, and boundaries outside any power dynamic. Research together through books, workshops, or experienced mentors. Start small - simple protocols like using honorifics or asking permission for specific activities. Allow trust to build through successful experiences before increasing intensity. Negotiate explicitly: What does dominance and submission mean to each of you? What are hard limits? What are goals? Consider written agreements that outline expectations, boundaries, and check-in schedules. Many couples begin by designating specific times for D/s play before expanding to broader lifestyle dynamics. Throughout, prioritize safety, consent, and communication. Mistakes will happen - the key is addressing them promptly with honesty. Some couples explore D/s within existing relationships while others seek partners specifically for power exchange dynamics.

What is the difference between D/s and total power exchange?

D/s (dominance and submission) describes the general category of power exchange relationships, while total power exchange (TPE) represents the most comprehensive form. In standard D/s, power exchange might be limited to specific contexts (bedroom only, weekends, specific protocols). Partners maintain separate decision-making in other areas. TPE extends the power dynamic to all aspects of life - the dominant holds authority over major life decisions, daily choices, and the submissive's entire existence within negotiated boundaries. D/s might involve the submissive asking permission for sexual activity; TPE involves asking permission for career changes, friendships, or personal purchases. D/s couples often maintain equality in public; TPE dynamics continue regardless of context. Most D/s relationships fall somewhere on the spectrum between bedroom-only and total power exchange, with couples negotiating the scope that serves them best. TPE requires extraordinary trust, compatibility, and commitment from both parties.

What are protocols in dominant-submissive relationships?

Protocols are structured behaviors that reinforce the power dynamic and create predictability within D/s relationships. They range from simple (using honorifics, specific greetings) to complex (elaborate service rituals, behavior codes). Basic protocols might include the submissive kneeling when the dominant enters, asking permission before sitting, or using formal address. Advanced protocols can govern posture, eye contact, speaking privileges, or daily service acts. Protocols serve multiple purposes: they maintain consciousness of the dynamic, provide clear expectations, create opportunities for obedience, and build anticipation. Well-designed protocols emerge from the specific relationship rather than being copied from external sources. They should feel meaningful to both parties rather than arbitrary. Protocols evolve as relationships deepen - what begins as conscious effort becomes natural expression of the dynamic. Some couples practice high protocol (constant, elaborate rules) while others prefer low protocol (occasional, simple structures).

How do dominant-submissive relationships handle conflicts?

Conflict resolution in D/s relationships requires navigating both the power dynamic and the human relationship beneath it. Successful dynamics establish meta-communication protocols - ways to discuss the relationship itself outside the power exchange. This might include scheduled check-ins where both parties speak as equals, safe words that pause the dynamic for serious discussions, or designated vanilla time for processing concerns. The dominant must be willing to hear feedback without punishment, recognizing that a submissive voicing concerns demonstrates trust rather than disobedience. The submissive must practice honest communication even when it feels vulnerable. Both must distinguish between dynamic conflicts (disagreements about the power exchange itself) and human conflicts (normal relationship challenges). Sacred conflict resolution recognizes that friction handled consciously deepens understanding. Unlike vanilla relationships where partners negotiate as equals, D/s conflicts resolve through established frameworks that honor the power structure while ensuring both voices are heard.

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Understanding Power Exchange in Modern Relationships

When someone first hears about dominant-submissive relationships, they often envision leather, dungeons, and weekend warriors playing dress-up. But in our sanctuary in the Peloponnese mountains, we live a different truth: D/s dynamics represent one of the most profound forms of intimacy human beings can experience.

A dominant-submissive relationship is a consensual power exchange where one partner assumes leadership and authority while the other voluntarily surrenders control within negotiated boundaries. Unlike vanilla partnerships built on democratic equality, D/s embraces structured inequality that serves both partners’ deepest psychological needs. The dominant gains fulfillment through responsibility, leadership, and seeing their guidance transform their submissive. The submissive finds freedom through structure, peace through surrender, and authenticity through service.

This isn’t roleplay that ends when the scene concludes. For those called to this path, power exchange becomes the architecture through which intimacy, growth, and even spirituality express themselves.

The Psychology Behind Dominant-Submissive Dynamics

Why Some Are Called to Lead, Others to Follow

Research reveals that dominant and submissive orientations reflect genuine variations in human psychology rather than trauma or dysfunction (Wismeijer & van Assen, 2013). Studies consistently show that BDSM practitioners demonstrate healthier psychological profiles than previously assumed, with higher well-being and relationship satisfaction than the general population (2024 evolutionary study).

Dominants often display natural leadership qualities that emerge early in life. They find satisfaction in responsibility, clarity in decision-making, and fulfillment in guiding others toward growth. The weight of authority doesn’t burden them but centers them. Research on social hierarchy shows that those comfortable with leadership roles process authority differently - they experience focus, purposefulness, and presence when exercising control within consensual dynamics (neural processing of social hierarchy).

Submissives show different but equally fascinating psychological profiles. Many score high on sensory-processing sensitivity, experiencing life more intensely than average. They often possess exceptional emotional intelligence and openness to experience. Rather than indicating weakness, submission requires the courage to be vulnerable, the strength to trust, and the discipline to obey. Submissives frequently report experiencing profound states of peace, presence, and connection when surrendering control to trusted authority - what many describe as transcendent or meditative states.

These orientations appear partly innate, influenced by temperament, attachment styles, and early experiences with authority. Research consistently shows that BDSM practitioners report higher relationship satisfaction (2024 communication study), better communication skills, and stronger psychological well-being than the general population (2024 replication study). Far from being pathological, these desires reflect natural human diversity (Brown et al., 2020).

The Complementary Nature of D/s Needs

Dominant-submissive relationships work because they’re not about one partner’s desires overriding another’s but about complementary psychological needs finding perfect match. The dominant needs someone to lead, guide, and hold responsible. The submissive needs someone to follow, trust, and surrender to. Neither could fulfill these needs alone or with a partner of similar orientation.

This complementarity creates a feedback loop of mutual satisfaction. The dominant’s competent leadership earns the submissive’s deeper trust. The submissive’s willing obedience validates the dominant’s authority. Each successful power exchange strengthens both partners’ capacity for their role, building toward profound trust that transforms relationships.

How Dominant-Submissive Relationships Function in Daily Life

The Spectrum from Bedroom to Lifestyle

D/s relationships exist on a spectrum of intensity and scope. At one end, couples explore dominance and submission only in sexual contexts - bedroom-only dynamics where power exchange enhances intimacy but doesn’t extend to daily decisions. The partners maintain equality outside intimate moments, with the power dynamic serving as spice rather than structure.

Moving along the spectrum, some couples practice part-time D/s - perhaps designating weekends for power exchange or establishing protocols that activate in private but not public spaces. The submissive might follow the dominant’s authority at home while operating as equals at work or with family.

At the deepest end lies what we practice in our sanctuary: total power exchange, where the dominant’s authority extends to all aspects of the submissive’s life within negotiated boundaries. Daily decisions, major life choices, personal habits, social interactions - all fall under the dominant’s purview. The submissive asks permission rather than informing, obeys rather than negotiating, and surrenders their will while maintaining absolute consent.

Most D/s relationships fall somewhere in the middle, with couples negotiating the scope that serves them best. There’s no hierarchy of legitimacy - bedroom-only dynamics are as valid as 24/7 power exchange. The key is finding the level that fulfills both partners authentically.

Daily Protocols and Power Exchange Rituals

Protocols transform abstract power dynamics into lived experience. These structured behaviors reinforce the relationship’s hierarchy while creating opportunities for connection through the dynamic itself.

Morning protocols might begin the day with power exchange - perhaps the submissive prepares the dominant’s coffee in a specific way, presents themselves for inspection, or performs a ritual of greeting that acknowledges their roles. These acts aren’t about the dominant’s incapacity but about the submissive’s service creating conscious connection before the day’s demands pull them apart.

Throughout the day, protocols maintain awareness of the dynamic. The submissive might text for permission before making purchases, use formal address in private, or maintain specific postures when in the dominant’s presence. Well-designed protocols feel meaningful rather than arbitrary, emerging from the specific relationship’s needs and values.

Evening protocols might involve the submissive presenting themselves for the day’s accounting, the dominant inspecting their property’s wellbeing, or shared rituals that mark the transition from public to private space. These consistent structures create predictability that calms the nervous system while maintaining the intensity that makes power exchange transformative.

Building a Healthy Dominant-Submissive Relationship

Unlike vanilla relationships where roles and expectations often remain implicit, healthy D/s dynamics require explicit negotiation. Both partners must articulate their desires, boundaries, and expectations with precision that leaves no room for dangerous assumptions.

Negotiation begins before any power exchange occurs. What does dominance mean to each partner? What does submission entail? What are absolute boundaries (hard limits) versus areas of caution (soft limits)? What are the goals - is this exploration, lifestyle, or something in between?

Many couples create written agreements that outline expectations, protocols, and review schedules. While not legally binding, these documents serve important psychological functions. The process of creating them requires deep discussion. The document itself becomes a touchstone both parties can reference when questions arise.

Crucially, consent in D/s relationships is ongoing, not a one-time grant. The submissive retains the right to withdraw consent at any time. The dominant bears responsibility for ensuring consent remains enthusiastic rather than coerced. Regular check-ins outside the dynamic ensure both partners remain fulfilled and safe.

Communication: The Dominant’s Authority, The Submissive’s Voice

Effective D/s relationships require paradoxical communication - maintaining the power dynamic while ensuring both voices are heard. This requires structured communication protocols that honor the hierarchy while protecting both partners’ wellbeing.

Many successful dynamics establish “vanilla zones” - specific times and contexts where protocol suspends temporarily so both parties can speak as equals about their relationship. During these times, the submissive can voice concerns, request changes, or express needs without fear of punishment. The dominant can acknowledge challenges or mistakes without undermining their authority.

Outside these zones, communication remains filtered through the power dynamic. The submissive asks rather than demands, requests rather than requires, and accepts the dominant’s decisions. But this doesn’t mean silence - a healthy dominant encourages their submissive’s honest expression, recognizing that communication strengthens rather than threatens their authority.

Safe words serve as ultimate communication tools, allowing either party to pause or stop the dynamic instantly if something goes wrong. These aren’t signs of failure but essential safety mechanisms that enable pushing boundaries while maintaining absolute safety.

Trust Building Through Consistent Action

Trust forms the absolute foundation of D/s relationships. Without trust, power exchange becomes dangerous rather than transformative. Unlike vanilla relationships where trust develops organically, D/s dynamics require accelerated trust-building because the stakes are higher.

Trust builds through consistent action over time. The dominant demonstrates trustworthiness by honoring agreements, maintaining boundaries, and caring for their submissive’s wellbeing even when inconvenient. They follow through on both promises and corrections. They remain emotionally regulated even when wielding intensity. They prove competent to hold the authority they’ve been granted.

The submissive builds trust through honest communication, faithful obedience, and vulnerability. They communicate their genuine state rather than what they think the dominant wants to hear. They follow protocols even when inconvenient or when the dominant isn’t watching. They risk sharing their deepest selves rather than maintaining protective facades.

Each successful exchange - each kept promise, each honored boundary, each moment of care within intensity - becomes a brick in the foundation of trust that will eventually support profound vulnerability and transformation.

Common Questions and Misconceptions

This question reveals fundamental misunderstanding of consensual power exchange. Abuse operates from entirely different psychological foundations than D/s relationships.

Abuse involves coercion, violates consent, and serves only the abuser’s needs at the victim’s expense. The victim has no real control or recourse. Power is taken, not given. Psychologically, abuse causes trauma, diminished self-worth, and damage to the victim’s sense of agency.

Consensual D/s involves explicit negotiation, ongoing enthusiastic consent, and serves both partners’ growth and pleasure. The submissive retains ultimate control through safewords and the ability to withdraw consent. Power is freely given and can be revoked. Both parties’ needs matter and are considered. Psychologically, healthy submission leads to empowerment, increased self-esteem, and expanded capacity for intimacy.

The key distinction: in D/s relationships, the submissive chooses their surrender and can unchoose it at any time. In abuse, choice is absent or coerced. Dominants in healthy D/s bear responsibility for their submissive’s wellbeing; abusers care only for their own gratification.

”Don’t D/s relationships contradict equality?”

D/s relationships don’t contradict equality but rather operate from different premises about what creates fulfilling partnerships. Vanilla relationships prioritize equal power and shared decision-making. D/s relationships embrace structured inequality within negotiated boundaries.

But this inequality applies to the dynamic itself, not to human worth or rights. The submissive remains equal in value, deserving of respect, and entitled to boundaries. They simply choose to grant authority to their dominant within specific contexts.

Many couples practice D/s within otherwise egalitarian relationships, compartmentalizing the power exchange to specific areas while maintaining equality elsewhere. Others extend the dynamic more broadly while ensuring the submissive’s core needs and boundaries remain inviolate.

The question isn’t whether inequality exists but whether that inequality is consensual, negotiated, and serves both partners’ authentic needs. When those conditions are met, D/s relationships can provide depth of intimacy that purely equal partnerships sometimes struggle to achieve.

”What about switching or fluid dynamics?”

Not everyone fits neatly into dominant or submissive categories. Switches enjoy both roles, either with different partners or at different times with the same partner. This flexibility doesn’t indicate confusion but psychological breadth - the capacity to fulfill both sets of needs depending on context.

Some people identify as dominant-leaning or submissive-leaning switches, finding one role more natural but enjoying occasional exploration of the other. Others switch equally between roles, finding fulfillment in the full spectrum of power exchange experience.

Fluid dynamics acknowledge that orientation can change over time or vary by context. Someone might be submissive in their primary relationship while dominant in professional contexts. Or their orientation might shift as they evolve psychologically.

These variations don’t invalidate the D/s framework but rather demonstrate its flexibility in serving diverse human needs. The key is maintaining explicit communication about roles, expectations, and consent regardless of how simple or complex the dynamic becomes.

The Path From Curiosity to Commitment

Exploring Without Commitment

For those curious about D/s but uncertain about commitment, exploration offers valuable information. Many people discover their authentic orientation through careful experimentation rather than intellectual analysis.

Beginning exploration might involve reading, watching educational videos, or attending workshops without engaging in actual power exchange. This research phase helps clarify what aspects of D/s resonate and which boundaries feel important.

Next might come light experimentation within existing relationships or with partners found through community. Simple protocols, basic power exchange during intimacy, or designated “D/s dates” allow experiencing the dynamics without extensive commitment.

Throughout exploration, maintaining explicit communication about expectations prevents misunderstandings. Make clear whether you’re experimenting, seeking ongoing dynamics, or still determining your orientation. Honesty allows both parties to participate with appropriate expectations.

Deepening Into Lifestyle Dynamics

For those who discover that D/s fulfills authentic needs, the path leads toward deeper integration. What begins as bedroom exploration might expand to daily protocols. Part-time dynamics might evolve toward broader power exchange. Casual exploration might transform into committed D/s relationships.

This deepening happens gradually through mutual consent as trust builds and both partners prove capable of their roles. The dominant demonstrates consistent leadership, care, and authority. The submissive shows faithful obedience, honest communication, and capacity for surrender.

Many couples find mentorship helpful during this transition. Experienced practitioners can offer guidance, help navigate challenges, and model healthy dynamics. Finding your circle within the BDSM community provides support, education, and connection with others walking similar paths.

The path from curiosity to commitment isn’t linear - many people explore, retreat, re-engage, and slowly find their authentic expression of power exchange. Patience with the process serves better than rushing toward intensity before foundation is established.

Dominant-Submissive Relationships in Spiritual Context

Beyond Psychology: The Sacred Dimension

While psychology explains the mechanisms of D/s relationships, some practitioners discover dimensions that transcend clinical understanding. In our sanctuary, we approach power exchange as spiritual practice - a path toward transformation that uses the body and relationship as vehicles for consciousness evolution.

The vulnerability required in D/s relationships creates conditions that practitioners often describe as profoundly transformative. When the submissive surrenders control completely, when the dominant holds another’s wellbeing as sacred responsibility, both report accessing states of consciousness that transcend ordinary identity - experiences many compare to deep meditation or spiritual practice.

Ancient mystery traditions understood what modern psychology is rediscovering: that conscious power exchange can become gateway to the divine. The hierodules who served in Greek temples, the tantric practices of the East, the sacred king traditions of the Celts - all recognized that surrendering personal will to sacred authority could transform consciousness.

This spiritual dimension doesn’t contradict the psychological understanding but adds depth. Power exchange serves both as healthy fulfillment of psychological needs and as technology for consciousness transformation. The structure of D/s creates container strong enough to hold the intensity of genuine spiritual opening.

Living the Dynamic as Sacred Practice

When D/s relationships embrace their spiritual dimension, every protocol becomes ritual, every surrender becomes offering, every act of dominance becomes sacred responsibility. The dominant doesn’t merely control but guides their submissive toward their highest expression. The submissive doesn’t merely obey but offers their will as conscious sacrifice.

This understanding transforms the entire dynamic. Morning protocols become morning devotions. Evening service becomes evening prayer. The daily structure of power exchange creates continuous opportunity for sacred practice - remaining present, surrendering ego, serving something larger than individual desire.

This is the path we walk in our sanctuary. Not just as psychological fulfillment or lifestyle choice but as spiritual practice that uses the vehicle of power exchange to transform consciousness itself. From this perspective, D/s relationships aren’t merely valid alternatives to vanilla partnerships but potentially profound paths toward awakening.

Conclusion: The Courage to Embrace Authenticity

Dominant-submissive relationships challenge modern assumptions about equality, autonomy, and power. They ask whether structured inequality might serve some people better than egalitarian partnership. They demonstrate that surrender can be strength, that obedience can be freedom, that explicit hierarchy can create deeper intimacy than democratic negotiation.

For those called to this path, D/s dynamics offer fulfillment unavailable through vanilla relationships. The dominant finds purpose in leadership, validation through their submissive’s growth, and authenticity in expressing their natural authority. The submissive finds peace in structure, transformation through surrender, and wholeness through service.

But this path requires courage - the courage to acknowledge desires that contradict cultural narratives, the courage to be vulnerable with another human, the courage to trust deeply enough for genuine power exchange. It requires honesty with oneself about authentic needs rather than performing what others expect. It requires finding partners whose complementary psychology matches your own.

If you’ve felt drawn to power exchange, if vanilla relationships leave you unfulfilled, if you recognize yourself in these descriptions of dominant or submissive psychology, perhaps you’re being called to explore this path. Begin with education, proceed with careful experimentation, build toward commitment through demonstrated trust and compatibility.

The journey from curiosity to lifetime devotion unfolds uniquely for each person. Some discover their truth quickly. Others explore for years before finding authentic expression. The key is moving at your own pace with honesty, awareness, and respect for both yourself and potential partners.

Here in our sanctuary, we’ve discovered that dominant-submissive relationships, practiced with consciousness and care, offer one of the most profound forms of human connection possible. Not despite the power inequality but because of it. Not in spite of the surrender but through it. This is the paradox at the heart of D/s dynamics: that accepting structured inequality can create deeper equality of souls, that surrendering control can grant ultimate freedom, that conscious submission can become path to authentic power.

For those exploring D/s dynamics, remember: healthy power exchange requires explicit consent, ongoing communication, and mutual care. Begin slowly, learn continuously, and honor both your authentic desires and inviolate boundaries. The path is profound but requires walking with awareness.

Research References

This article is supported by peer-reviewed scientific research. All links verified and accessible.

Psychological Well-Being & Personality Studies:

Wismeijer, A. A., & van Assen, M. A. (2013). Psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10(8), 1943-1952. PubMed
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Lecuona, O., et al. (2024). Not twisted, just kinky: Replication and structural invariance of attachment, personality, and well-being among BDSM practitioners. Journal of Homosexuality. PubMed
- Large-scale Spanish replication study (N=1,884) confirming BDSM practitioners show higher secure attachment, conscientiousness, openness, and well-being; lower insecure attachment, rejection sensitivity, and neuroticism compared to non-practitioners.

Communication & Relationship Quality:

Carty, A., & Davidson, A. (2024). Directness of communication mediates sexual satisfaction: What we can learn from a positive view of BDSM practice. Journal of Positive Sexuality. DOI: 10.51681/1.1012 Full text PDF
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Systematic Reviews:

Brown, A., Barker, E. D., & Rahman, Q. (2020). A systematic scoping review of the prevalence, etiological, psychological, and interpersonal factors associated with BDSM. Journal of Sex Research, 57(6), 781-811. PubMed
- Comprehensive scoping review (60 studies) showing “little support for psychopathologic or psychoanalytic models.” BDSM practitioners do not show higher rates of mental health or relationship problems compared to general population.

Neuroscience & Social Hierarchy:

Zink, C. F., et al. (2008). Know your place: Neural processing of social hierarchy in humans. Neuron, 58(2), 273-283. PMC Free Full Text
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Evolutionary & Biological Perspectives:

Wismeijer, T., et al. (2024). An evolutionary psychological approach toward BDSM interest and behavior. Archives of Sexual Behavior. PMC Free Full Text
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Note: All research cited represents peer-reviewed scientific literature published in recognized academic journals. Studies consistently demonstrate that consensual BDSM and D/s relationships, when practiced with awareness and communication, are associated with positive psychological outcomes, better communication skills, and equivalent or superior relationship satisfaction compared to the general population.

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